How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 04:38
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What is your review of "Regent", episode 5 of Season 2 House of the Dragon?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What do you do to make yourself sleep early?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What type of sex do women prefer, oral, anal, or vaginal?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How does a person become transgender?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why does the God of the Bible condemn homosexual acts?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Who is the most annoying character in the Office?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why do you think it is bad to allow people to self-identify as a different gender?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Making more friends is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).